Pat & I have known Brian and Marg over many years, we have visited them in Australia(BBQs wonderful memory) and they have visited us at Northampton in the UK, memories include walks in the park with the dog and going to the races, happy days indeed We will miss Brian Rod & Pat

The Boorowa Dramatic Society put on musicals,concerts, plays etc.. They had some very talented members and lots of others like Brian and I who joined to make up the numbers and meet the girls. In one play Brian had the role of a comedy-type shady character called Gerald Towt. Brian was so funny that Gerald became his nickname. Some of us still think of him as Gerald.

I met Brian and Marg on the "Amazing Grace" in 2001, my fondest memories are of dancing with Brian on one of the tall ships, Amazing Grace supplied. We had a great time and really enjoyed being with the "Aussies" RIP Brian, I will remeber you Terri

To the "old fellow" I have so many happy memories, which will help me over the coming years, Brian was my rock, I will miss him so much, but am so thankful that I could call him my mate. love "Bugs"

We've had some great BBQ's with you Brian and Margie and what enjoyable days we've had on the bowling green, some serious games but always your encouragement and quiet manner prevailed. I can sitill see you with headphones plugged in striding the Scotts Head streets. We are privileged to have had you as a friend. Keep pounding the pavement Brian. I've been with you Margie all the way and are still with you now.

I visited Brian and Margaret twice in company with my son Paul and Kelly. I missed them on their visit to Saltburn but was welcomed warmly (despite my jet lag!) and enjoyed their hospitality at Scots Head. I vividly remember a walk through the bush with Brian, amagical experience, despite wearing flip flops and meeting some small natives that became very attatched! I remember two lovely people and am sorry there will be no more memories made together. With love from Ann thinking of you with love

Donna Valentine and Ted Benjamin express their sincwere sympathy to Margarey, Kay, Kerrie and Diane and their families on the passing of Brian. While Brian's absence will leave a huge gap in your lives, it is certian that you also have many ,many happy memories of a wonderful man. It was our good fortune to develop our friendship with Margaret and Brian while we were still (relatively) young couples, with growing families. Our happy memories include: 1) Splashing about in the pool with Brian and Marg and the kids at Ryde, 2) Gourmet barbeques in the backyard, with Brian cooking(remember the marinated fish?) 3) Scratching our heads while pondering some of the more modern exhibits in the New National Gallery in Canberra, 4) bringing the average age of the"Sunlander" passengers down by 30 years or so(to 70-ish), 5) Lazy days at Port Douglas, 6) Walks on Scotts Head Head, again followed by gourmet barbeques, 7) Even the weather couldn't spoil our enjoyment of Brian's and Margaret's company, on one visit, floods prevented us leaving Scotts Head, but Brian and Ted kept themselves happily occupied yakking to one another while painting the inside of the new house-Margaret and I keeping them motivated with lavish compliments on their compliments on their good work! Unfortunately, distance and other commitments prevented us from having more of these experiences. Still, we count ourselves lucky to have had Brian's friendship and will remember him with affection. Once again, other commitments will prevent us from being present at Brian's funeral or at the reception in Scotts Head. But from what we have heard of the preparations already in hand. Brian is assured of a jolly good send-off, which we will be very sorry to miss

From our beloved friend Brian, we will keep the best memories of being kind, smiling, considerate, strong, funny and a real gentleman. We will really miss him in Serifos....and we will always remember him.... We wish him to be now in a place where he can walk, swim and enjoy nature as much as he wishes, like he did all those years. Much love to our dear Marg. Wish we were there to help you in these difficult moments...and wish to see you again soon. Stella-Theodoros-Georgina-Konstantinos Bitsakos

We met Brain and Marg on a trip to the Galapagos Islands in Ecuador. We spent great moments there and loved to talked with this marvellous couple. Then, a year later, Marg and Brian came to our house in Quito and we had an extraordinary afternoon singing, eating and laughing. Even though Brian left us now, we will remember him because he was a really lovely and wise man. Marg, you have all our support, you are never alone.

I remember the great times we shared whilst helping Brian making his home made brew, my contribution was to be the chief taster telling him how it tasted as it was being made. We had a great laugh as I knew nothing about beer. That was one of many memories that I was lucky enough to have had with Brian. My happy memories will always continue through his loving family Happy walking Brian on your new adventure Lee

Hi Brian I will always remember our trip to Warick Castle and the races, where I didn't win anything until the last race(what a fluke) and you have a nap in Mum and Dad's comfy chairs. I will you, please take care

Hi Brian I will always remember our trip to Warick Castle, and the races, where I didn't win anything until the last race(what a fluke) and you having a nap in Mum and Dad,s comfy chair. I will miss you, please take care

We moved into Morton Parade, Nowra, in 1967, about the same time that Brian and Marg moved into a bank place just up the road in Journal Street. As it was practically a requirement for a bright young banker in those days, Brian was a member of Apex, and so was Stan who had transferred from the Milton Ulladulla. Apart from our families’ involvement together in Apex, Jan would occasionally baby sit Sonya and Kaye. Brian and Stan played a bit of squash, did some casual fishing, including sleeping overnight on Comerong Island once, where rather than catching fish, we were the bait for aggressive sand flies. On occasions Brian would relate little tales about his travels in Europe, although in later years, probably with the benefit of a clearer head, he was not prepared to repeat them. It was a great time to bring up family in Nowra and our family was most fortunate to share the same path with the Lightfoot family for three years. A short period of time in the scheme of things but the friendship has continued ever since, if mainly from a distance. In 1969 Stan became the president of Nowra Apex and the ever willing Brian took on the job as his secretary. That year Apex clubs conducted a walk around Australia to raise funds for autistic kids with many clubs participating in part of the walk in their local areas to complete the relay. It was placed on the record that when the walk passed through the Shoalhaven area, Brian was one of just three locals who walked the 30 kilometres from Berry to Falls Creek. Think he could have walked all the way to Ulladulla that day. Last Tuesday we were with friends Ted and Maureen Hartley here in Coffs and, recalling that Brian was born in Coffs Harbour, mentioned Brian’s passing. Ted said, “I remember Brian, he was in my class in primary school.” Jan and I think that is a measure of the man, Brian is someone you always remember.

I first met Brian when I was a young boy, when he was over visiting the UK and catching up with relatives. I was only very young so do not have any specific memories. However, when Kelly and I emigrated to Australia 4 years ago we decided to make contact with our relatives and tracked Brian and Margaret to Scotts Head. We were promptly invited to visit and went for the weekend to Scotts Head. During the visit we had an embarrassing moment when Brian announced that after reviewing the family tree, he could not see how we were related (so for all intents and purposes two strangers were staying in the house). This was all cleared up after a few phone calls, but what struck me at the time was how unconcerned Brian. This seemed a reflection of his marvellous character which was so friendly, relaxed and unassuming. I also remember joining Brian on one of his power walks up the beach one morning and being a bit embarrassed after 1 km, as I had to admit I could not keep up and had to head back for a cup of tea. I have some really special memories of our visits to Brian and Margaret's - having a glass of red wine with Brian and listening to his extensive travel stories, playing snooker and having just a wonderful time. It always seemed to me that we had all known each other a lot longer than we had. I feel blessed to of known Brian, even for such a short time and treasure what time we had. I will miss Brian terribly - he was such a special, special person. XX

We got to know Brian and Margaret when Sonya married John, and since then have formed a very close friendship. It has been a great pleasure to have had several visits from the eager travellers here in Alford, Scotland. All the Gordon family enjoyed getting to know them. Brian told me that he really loved Scotland and could live here despite the weather. George and Brian had lots of laughs together. How sad that we wont have another visit from him, but we shall cherish many happy memories. Margaret and Russell

Our association with Brian & Margaret started with our daughter Catherine & Kerrie becoming very close in school years, and they have maintained this long and lasting friendship. Our families over many years enjoyed wonderful social times together, mainly before our move to the Southern Highlands. Margaret, I still often think of those times at the Manor House Balmain on New Years Eves. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.

I first met Brian and Marg, after Paul and I tracked them down as distant relatives after we first moved to Australia from the UK. They picked us up from the airport and welcomed us into their home and hearts knowing nothing about us or who we really were. I will never forget that first night sitting in their home at Scotts Head and Brian taking out his family tree and asking us exactly how we were related because he couldnt figure it out. Paul and I looked at each other with panic as neither of us knew the exact history and there was a moment of panic that we had contacted the wrong people before Paul was able to contact his dad and clarify the link !!! I have fond, fond memories of walks along the beach, playing pool, fabulous BBQ's in the garden, and listening to amazing stories of endless travels around the world. In my heart I'll keep these memories, always to treasure, love them always and forget you never. xxxxx

We first met Brian and Margaret through an email exchange. We were sailing on the MV Amazing Grace Oct 2001. Margaret had gotten our names as being fellow passengers and we exchange information for their first Windjammer experence. Brian was always with a tale about past travels and we after the cruise never knew where they would be next. We have always cherished our 26 day cruise. Fair seas Brian